By Alison David Bird, C.Ht.; Originator of Marconics

KNOW who IS of your tribe… and who IS NOT! It is important for you to know and understand. 

One of the most difficult things you will do during this period of great change is say “goodbye” to someone you love or, have loved in the past.

We are sociable creatures, but familiar faces do more than just bring us comfort. Family and friends we interact with the most contribute to our sense of Self. Loved ones provide foundation and support and bear witness to our journey. They act as mirrors that reflect our own actions and behaviors and are barometers for our personal development.

When a relationship becomes frictional, we feel defined and obligated by the time spent together and hold on—regardless of its impact on our health. Losing a friend feels like we lost a part of ourselves, like we have failed in some way, and that undermines our fundamental sense of well-being. We hang on too long, determined to see them through to the bitter end. And sometimes it does get bitter.

We, as spirit, phased-locked into the illusion of individual expression here on this planet, may have contracted for experiences that cannot be shared with another. This may create imbalance in a relationship—romantic, platonic or familial—that leads to resentment, judgment and even outright conflict, resulting in the relationship breaking down.

In the Higher Realms relationships are for a season only. Even romantic relationships are for the purpose of sharing, learning and growing and when a relationship has been served, both sides wish each other well, and move on.

The loss of someone close to you through death is always contracted. It is an experience that is designed for everyone involved to learn from the dynamic of the event, which creates a nexus point across multiple timelines, allowing for renewed contracts, choices and experiences. Most likely, they will still assist you on your path from a higher space.

As someone leaves your sphere, whether through death or the demise of a friendship, you can trust the space they leave will be filled. The loss of a loved one, however painful, is often followed by the arrival of someone else, a new teacher, as if sent by the universe itself. Don’t judge the package, or nature of the arrival; embrace it. A non-blood relative could be the most important member of your Soul group.

In the old paradigm, our local community was key to our survival. It was typical to stick together through thick and thin, dragging each other over every hump and bump in the road, to stand a better chance of succeeding in life.

These times require the kind of love that sets someone free from the bonds that bind you together, empowering them to travel the path set out for them, which may be beset with challenges and opportunities so they can meet the requirements of karmic accounting before embarking on the next phase of their spiritual journey.

Unconditional Love will help you to let go and send them on in the knowledge that by the Grace of God, you will meet again, if you choose, and you will recognize each other and your infinite connection through Spirit. Love comes from a deeper knowingness of who you are. Do not fear, know you are loved by those who you would desire to be loved by.

This article was submitted by Robin Landau, Marconics Master Teacher, who is here to assist others on their ascension. She can be reached at 516-369-3653 or [email protected]. 

Alison David Bird, C.Ht, is the originator of Marconics Ascension Energy Healing. For more information about Marconics, practitioner training courses, spiritual alchemy, and personal transformation workshops, visit Marconics.com.