Finding Your Tribe casts a wide net in this month’s issue. It’s not just for people but also our beloved pets. Surrounding ourselves with like-minded people brings a stronger sense of fulfillment, acceptance, community and joy. 

When we first moved to our town, I immediately sought out women with kids in the same age range as ours. I joined groups that gathered at playgrounds, walking groups, or just the simple “bring-your-kid to a host house” event that rotated weekly. We would head into New York City to see a Broadway show or have monthly dinners to exhale and exalt in our kid-free time and applaud the power of motherhood. We learned from one another and reminded ourselves that we were women first before we became mommies. Having a tribe in a similar life phase makes the transition easier. 

The same goes for one of our sons. He never really found his tribe throughout many of his years of schooling. However, he’s making up for it now that he’s in college. He’s more involved with peers and has a bigger social life than us! Discovering friends with the same interests who also accept him for who he is has been life changing. There is so much joy in surrounding yourself with those who “get you.” Finding his tribe has made his time on campus that much sweeter. 

As for our furry friends, our town has been trying to construct a dog park to gather and let the dogs play while we bond. Living in a rural area that does not have sidewalks makes finding safe places for dogs to walk and play difficult. Having a dog is usually a no-brainer when bringing a tribe of people and pets together. 

Whether your tribe comes together to give back or to find support and friendships, go out and find one. And if you can’t find a tribe that suits your interests or needs, then may I suggest starting one? I guarantee you’ll always find someone that wants to join.